Q10. Your friend shares their dreams with you. What do you do?

We all have that one friend who shares their deepest dreams and ambitions with us. How you respond to those moments can say a lot about the type of best friend you are. In the quiz titled “Answer These Questions To Find Out What Type Of Best Friend You Are,” I designed a question that taps into this very scenario. Here’s a deeper dive into the options you might choose and what they say about you.

Analyze: Help them break down the steps to achieve their dream

If you’re the kind of person who chooses this option, you’re probably the one who brings the logic to the friendship. You’re the Brainiac—someone who sees dreams as something achievable, but only with the right plan. You’re the friend who sits down with a notebook and starts mapping out exactly how your friend can go from point A to point B.

Maybe your friend dreams of starting their own business. Instead of just saying, "You can do it!" you’re more likely to ask, "What’s your business plan? Have you thought about your target market? Let’s break this down step by step." You’re the one who helps them see the path forward, providing the structure they might not have realized they needed.

Your approach is practical and methodical. You know that dreams can sometimes be overwhelming, so you help break them down into manageable pieces. Your friend can count on you to not just believe in them but to guide them with actionable advice. Your type of friendship is all about bringing a level-headed perspective to those big, sometimes daunting dreams.

Support: Unconditionally support their dreams

Choosing this option means you’re the Listener of the group. You’re the friend who knows that sometimes what a person needs most is someone who will just be there for them, no questions asked. When your friend shares their dreams with you, you’re not necessarily thinking about the steps or the challenges; you’re focused on showing your unwavering support.

Your friend could tell you they want to quit their job and become a professional surfer, and you’d be right there cheering them on. You might say, "That sounds amazing! I know you can do it." You’re the one who reassures them that their dreams are valid, no matter how wild they may seem.

Your strength lies in your ability to provide emotional support. You understand that people need to feel believed in, and you make sure your friends never doubt that you’re in their corner. You’re the best friend who is always ready to listen, offer a comforting word, and remind your friends that you believe in them no matter what.

Take action: Help them take practical steps towards their dream

If this option resonates with you, then you’re the Adventurer in your circle. You’re not just about talking the talk—you’re all about walking the walk. When your friend tells you about their dream, your immediate response is to jump into action. You’re the one who’s already thinking about how to get started and what you can do to help.

Let’s say your friend dreams of writing a book. You’re the one who says, "Let’s do this! I’ll help you set up a writing schedule, and we can start brainstorming ideas right now." You’re all about making things happen and are eager to dive into the process with them.

Your friendship style is dynamic and proactive. You don’t just want to see your friends succeed; you want to be part of the journey. You’re the one who’s always ready for the next step, whether it’s making that first phone call, setting up a meeting, or just being there to encourage your friend to take that initial leap of faith. You make dreams feel real and achievable by turning them into actions.

Motivate: Encourage them to pursue their dream and believe they can achieve it

Choosing this option makes you the Motivator of your friend group. You’re the one who’s always there to pump up the energy and get your friends excited about their dreams. You believe that with enough passion and positivity, anything is possible.

When your friend shares their dream with you, your response is full of enthusiasm. Maybe they want to start a non-profit, and your reply is something like, "You’ve got this! You’re exactly the person who can make this happen. The world needs more people like you." You’re the hype person, the one who makes sure your friends never lose sight of their potential.

Your approach is all about energy and encouragement. You’re the best friend who helps others see the best in themselves, even when they’re doubting their abilities. You inspire your friends to go after what they want with everything they’ve got, reminding them that they’re capable of achieving greatness. Your words have power, and you use them to lift your friends up, making them feel invincible.

Why These Options Matter

Each of these responses reflects a different but equally valuable type of friendship. Whether you’re the one bringing the logic, the unwavering support, the action, or the motivation, your role as a best friend is crucial. These dynamics show how we all play different roles in our friends' lives, and how each of us contributes to helping the people we care about reach their dreams.

When you answer this question in the quiz, it’s not just about picking a random option. It’s about reflecting on how you naturally interact with your friends and what you bring to the table in those key moments. Understanding this can help you appreciate the unique qualities you offer in a friendship, and maybe even help you recognize the different ways your friends are there for you too.

Friendship is complex and multifaceted, and this quiz is a fun way to explore that. So next time your friend shares a dream with you, think about which of these options best represents how you’d respond. It might just give you a new perspective on the type of best friend you are.